It is hard
to let go the person you love the most. The pain of separation is terrible. We
experience that this emotional pain is terrible than any physical illness. The
emotional wound is very deep and there is no medication to heal this wound. We
want an instant solution but we fail to find one.
We give
ourselves no logic when we fall in love with someone as we think our heart knows
no logic. We never ask ourselves why am I falling in love with him/her? . But
then when our heart breaks why do we go on looking for a logic in that. We want
to know why it happened, how it happened, what went wrong ,etc. All of a sudden
our mind rules our heart and we go on hunting for all the answers possible
which does not help in anyway. Logical reasoning will not help you heal your
heart. It will give you a feeling of fighting against the situation but we
forget that we are actually fighting a lost battle. Your heart does not know to
take revenge or play games until it takes help of mind. I think when the matter
is of heart it should be solved by heart. And heart can heal its wound only by
acceptance, love and forgiveness.
If god gave you a choice of being with the person you love for a limited period of time or never meeting that person in your life, What would you choose ? If your answer is for a limited period of time ,then you have to face the repercussions of it. Love is the binding force of any relationship . If for any reason any of the partner decides to part ways ,it needs to be respected. But generally we end up giving justification to stay together and this strangles the relationship even more.
Break
up is like an open heart surgery completed with love and forgiveness. Success
or Failure of it depends on your ability to accept and let go.
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ReplyDeleteBeautifully written. Clearly emotional writing. Nicely done.
ReplyDeleteVery true - acceptance is the key! I believe separation is merely physical whereas love is psychological. Love isn't bound by time and space, and can continue for ever and ever and ever! Love does't end, its form and expectations may, not the core though. If the happiness of the loved one is at stake, heart-break is a small cost to pay for it.
ReplyDeleteRead this again today. It makes so much more sense now!! Very helpful. Thanks Rashi for making the readers understand and help them through tough times. Keep up the good work and keep writing!
ReplyDeleteWell written. An emotional phase is the break up in love, yes, accepting will make it easy.but it doesn't go away from our mind, break up leaves a scar, isn't.
ReplyDeleteWell written. An emotional phase is the break up in love, yes, accepting will make it easy.but it doesn't go away from our mind, break up leaves a scar, isn't.
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